
For generations, owning a home has represented far more than a place to live. It has symbolized stability, opportunity, and the chance to build a better future. While today’s housing market has changed dramatically, I believe the American Dream of homeownership is still alive and well—it just arrives on a different timeline.
When I entered the real estate business, the typical first-time homebuyer was just 29 years old. Today, that buyer is 40, the oldest median age ever recorded by the National Association of REALTORS®. That’s a significant shift, but it doesn’t mean people have stopped dreaming of owning a home. It means the journey has become more challenging.
Higher home prices, elevated mortgage rates, student debt, and the difficulty of saving for a down payment have pushed homeownership further down the road for many families. At the same time, today’s homeowners are staying in their homes longer—an average of 11 years compared to just 6 or 7 years decades ago. Many are locked into historically low mortgage rates and simply can’t justify moving into a higher-rate loan.
As a result, first-time buyers now make up only 21% of the market, the lowest level since tracking began in 1981.
But here’s what I know after decades in this business: markets change, interest rates change, and opportunities always return.
Homeownership has never been about timing the perfect market. It’s about creating long-term financial security, building equity, and investing in your future. Those fundamentals haven’t changed.
Young buyers may have to be more patient, save longer, or adjust their expectations, but the rewards of owning a home remain as meaningful as ever.
The American Dream isn’t disappearing, it’s evolving. And when people are ready, I believe they’ll continue to pursue it with the same determination that generations before them did.
That’s why I’ll always remain optimistic about the future of homeownership. It continues to be one of the most powerful wealth-building opportunities available to American families.